1. Try to mentally prepare.
I know this is hard because you don't know exactly what day you will go into labor unless you are induced right, but most of the time your doctor can kind of give you an idea based on your symptoms and exam. Basically, I think what helped me is going into labor the first time I didn't have a plan that I wanted to follow, I basically was open to whatever had to happen to ultimately get the outcome of a healthy mom and healthy baby. Of course with my first I didn't know how it was going to feel or if I could handle the pain, but I basically told myself, your body is going to go through something that mujeres have been doing for thousands of years and it will be difficult, but I continued to build myself up in those last couple weeks before my delivery. I knew I was strong physically so the mental strength came with my mental preparation. Honestly, the mental strength ends up being more important during the "transition period" when you are almost going to get ready to deliver and your cervix usually goes from 8 to 10 centimeters and you are ready to push soon after. If you believe you can do it, you really can. The mind is a powerful thing!